3 Stages of Relationship

It’s all your fault, then it’s all my responsibility, then we’re both just imperfect humans.

Don’t Analyze This

When you get scared, your mind starts frantically telling old stories. Don’t listen to them.

Turn Up the Heat

It’s not about flowers or fancy dinners. It’s about magnifying your own sensual energy and inviting your partner into that space.

The Co-Sleeping Challenge

Attaching to baby often means distancing from your spouse. Here’s how to stay connected as a couple.

Games People Play

Look beneath the role you tend to play in relationship, then beneath that, and so on, until you see the hilarity of it all.

Go Ahead, Go to Bed Angry

Whoever said couples should solve every argument before bed? Sleep on it and you may forget the fight altogether.

Are You a Gaslighter?

There’s a very clear line between disagreeing with your partner and emotionally abusing her.

Want the One You’re With

We crave long-term relationships but we also want to re-experience that first wave of passion. Here’s how to crush on the one you love.

The Spiral of Trust

Fear kept private builds on itself, but share your fears and watch trust grow.

The Physics of Love

In the natural world, the strongest elements know how to bend and not break. Do you?

The Junk in His Trunk

Yes, his collection of Game of Thrones figurines is super-weird, but if you love him, make room for it.

The Secret to Compromise

Instead of giving in, butting heads, or walking away, figure out that one specific thing you are so unwilling to let go of.

Why We Cheat

At root, cheating is usually not about our current relationship or a shiny new lover. It’s about our self-image.

The Beauty of Anger

The emotion we most fear is the one we need to let ourselves feel. The key is doing it safely—and alone.

The 4-Word Fight Ender

The surprisingly simple question that can turn an argument into a constructive discussion.

It’s Not What You Say

When words get in the way, use your intuition and your body to reconnect with your partner on a deeper level.

How to Fight Fair

Stay focused, avoid extreme statements, lay off the character assaults, and remember the toothpaste.

Some Like It Vulnerable

Want to rock his or her world? Start with opening up to your raw, tender truth and paying full attention to each moment.

What’s Your Fighting Style?

The way you start a fight says a lot about your relationship’s future, so when you come out swinging, keep it clean.

Claim Your Queer

Let’s face it—everyone wants something a little weird now and then.

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

We think of monogamy as natural, but it’s actually quite advanced—the trouble is we default to it out of fear instead of choosing it consciously.